Who was never tried? Who ever thought?
At some point in our lives, we judge someone or something, create a label, but because judge's label, is to create a sense for what we do not understand. You create a ... name.
The person judging does so for many reasons, it is not easy lists them can be as simple as the most futile and ignorant prejudice, or as complex as unresolved feelings and for the character, creation, education. Does not really matter, the important thing is that everyone who believes, at some point is also judged.
I believe that analyzing a situation, discuss it, seek answers, finally, "dissect" a subject to background this way, is the best means of demonstrating evolution, maturity, respect.
For example ... deal with subjects as varied but at the same time as inextricably linked as I reported here, issues related to daily life, customs, relationships ... life. I do not think that is one hundred percent right, nor that I know the ropes, but if I watch the stones of the road, surely stumble less. (who differentiates stones with lemon other prevents the bumps are signs that we learn along the way, but are signals to which few pay attention, if we find some marked stones ... then better do not you think?)
I know people who believe (ie externalize their opinions without thinking, simply label someone or something), instead of analyzing the situation analyze only those involved, do not observe the factors that have led to the events, do not observe the context, just who is involved and judge the attitudes and responses, but they forget that every human being is unique and that each situation causes a different intensity of reaction.
The most important in our daily lives and in living with others is to consider some factors before "analyze" any situation:
Respect ...
Fairness ...
Justice ...
Tolerance ...
and think of the basics ... if you judge can also be tried.
Drajosiane Odila
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