The psychopath, so feared and considered to blame for all the ills of the world, come between us and may well be his childhood friend, your brother, your aunt or girlfriend.
This kind of person does not come with black stripe on the face and not with damaged bar code. It is quite possible that adore your friend psychopath and sometimes to please stolen by his influence. It's that guy who makes blunders, exaggerate and lose the hand, almost like you. Or rather, it could be you.
For exercise purposes and thinking of the types we deal with in our day-to-day, we can divide this disorder in 5 hypothetical types. It is not an official scale. I want to speak of those people that leave us with a flea in his ear. Our friend bar, the guy more room fucking-loca or who have given up hope that return the borrowed money.
I will describe them in danger of order, almost an evil scale it. This is not to say that all these profiles indicate people ready to commit some kind of brutal murder at the end of next week.The conqueror
How to spot a psychopath
Imagine you wake up with the restless heart, a strange anxiety and you soon comes a beautiful girl in the head. You know you need to call her and arrange to leave. Or see what time it is and sends an torpedinho naughty and full of love to give.
She replies anxious, with some jokes and you feel that conquered the world. But until the night comes, goes too slow to pass that itching and since that hot neighbor gave you yesterday mole would not cost anything to hit on her door asking for a favor. She sees you through the peephole takes a little longer and opens the door with panties face of "gets me hard." And so the game goes the rest of the day and week. Only that all delight begins to turn a "disturbing".
The profile: This is the type hated and adored by all women. He can talk with great ease all that a woman would like to hear. It smells good sexual opportunities exploiting that girl think you can change the character of man. He loves to feel that smell victory in the air.
Not necessarily sex he likes, but the feeling of being able to have sex, after all, he is the type to fast bored, very fast. This is why will try to disappear from the motel or house of Guria soon as you finish to enjoy.
The hunt validates its power. His charisma is unusual and charming. Anyone want to have on your side such a person as a friend or a lover.
Behind the thousand wonders, live self-deception cycles that refuses to see. Prevents own suffering at all costs, sewing the wildest stories to convince never be the cause of another's pain.
His main skill: delight, sweeten life and make everything lighter. Seems to check for genuine connections, but in fact, does not develop them. Only distorts sweet melodies.
The malandrão
How to spot a psychopath
You know that cold morning or gives taste out of bed? Think how it would be able to turn off the alarm clock snooze not for 10 minutes, but for how long you wanted. It would be like living in permanent vacation without headache, accounts payable or problems to solve. Heaven on Earth, always with a fancy woman of your hand ready to solve each boring stalemate of everyday life.
He wants to enjoy life, just enjoy.
The profile: Imagine the mythical figure of the trickster or Rio maria boot. Lazy means, wake up late, even having slept early. It seems that has a swing in the soul that makes people indulge in their presence. There's always a treat to his lips and a rose in hand.
Not afraid to shoot, threat, woman in PMS, much less brave husband. He is able to convince the more enraged cuckold that did nothing else. If caught at the scene, having sex with the man's wife while he is wearing socks, will still be able to convince the horned who was fixing the shower and it needed to be naked. And worse, it will be convincing.
He will be in the bars, splitting the beer (a drumstick, the cigarette, the ballad) "Friends" and his triumph is when you find a sweet woman who will be your passport to happiness. Pitying for his situation, will host it at home. As a sanguesssuga, this rogue will absorb everything you can with a smile and cynicism in the face, until it runs out leaving, tormented.
His main skill: enjoy life as anyone, without shame or fear of the next day. However, with traces selfish, self-centered. Ignores the social common sense, pretending not to have desconfiômetro.
The alleged
Who likes to take shit from home and spend a coward in front of others? If the guy shut you in traffic and was loose, why not move ahead and take satisfaction? What's the matter of putting loose people in place? If the world is made of naughty people, why not show who rules the roost? What is wrong with wanting everything right and your way?
The profile: You know that guy that you are afraid to find on the sidewalk and has a kind of red eyes to give fear? Is it that we speak. Ready to solve your problems to blows, he is always the esquentadinho class. In doubt he's put his hand in someone's face, man or woman.
Without realizing it, is always looking for a way to get in trouble. For this reason, loves the traffic in the metropolis. Accustomed to bear arms, always has a about to be triggered. Incidentally, has a warlike philosophy to deal with life: you or your ally or your enemy. 8 or 80, usually has a list of enemies and never wishes to relieve anyone bar.
Loves movies of war or violence and, if it could, it would be the police or organized crime. Somehow, likes to get involved with things related to the law, is to corrupt or exercise power.
His main skill: identifying risks and physical hazards before all, in order to always keep close to the "confusion" - either to attack or to attack on behalf of the alleged protection of yourself or those around you.
The scammer
How to spot a psychopath
The world is very annoying, time consuming and full of red tape. It would be nice if you could get rid of them all and do very well in the end. No one is watching and if no problem, after all, who pays your bills?
Time to pay the bill with friends, never paid much. Everyone had fun "at his expense" and can pay more, including the part. Now that's what life is. The line at the bank is taking, people are inattentive and you can give that furadinha without affecting anyone. Why not?
"Brazilian Jeitinho" is your last name. Trambiques and dirty trick are your brothers.
If you need, invents an excuse, those harmless white lies that do not harm anyone. Impersonate any person to get into a party, trendy or earn a quick buck, "would be fun." If everyone plays of make-believe in the carnival, why not expand the fun the rest of the whole year? It is forbidden to forbid.
The profile: Famous 171, with the mustache he wire is not worth a penny. "Cash in hand is Storm" and who can lend, will be deserved and well soon return, almost close to its death. If needed, he invents a voice, a new behavior or gesture to get along in life.
It is a social chameleon, always ready to steal an object, a post, a position or person. It is disingenuous and a liar, compulsive and talented, know to tie a drop of water as anyone. If necessary, he cries or laughs to get rid of some trouble.
The more skeptical type is able to be fooled by it, by the way, the most straights usually their favorite victims. After all, he knows massage the ego of others to get what you want. His motto is "I want to do well here and now!" and, therefore, approaches to good positions groups to take advantage and to perform acts of embezzlement.
His main skill: understanding the human subtleties promptly unusual, expressing illusions able to move people in the exact direction you want. Banks, safes and women have no secrets before his gift. Create trust, selling dreams and ambitions evoke unknown even by their targets.
The serial killer
How to spot a psychopath
You now have a sense of constant fear, too afraid that someone disrupt their plans of end-to-week. Everything is planned to go out in the best possible way, nothing can go wrong, after all, you can not always do what you enjoy. The feeling is of a prom, the ballad of the year, your anniversary day, a magical moment.
Imagine someone coming along the way and trying to stop you to know that person that will bring you pleasure absurd. The frustration would be unparalleled! So better take each step at a time, meticulously, without telling anyone. The delicious food, just like the lunch his mother and what you expect to eat for so long will be there, waiting for you juicy. The sweet taste of human flesh rotting. Hmm, unforgettable.
The profile: It would be lovely to stay for a while without feeling too guilty about their own actions, press the fuck up button and quit doing what you desire. So feel the most dangerous type of psychopaths, serial criminals - which may include pedophiles, rapists, murderers and occasional those who kill in series.
Radical freedom is their motto and no one can stand in their way (at the risk of death). Anyone who tries to disrupt their vontadse is running a serious risk to their well-being. As he is unable to take the role of others or have compassion, often have great difficulty to adapt to social life. He developed the technique of copying the behaviors of others and react more automatically.
His thirst for power and search for relief of anxiety usually end the careful rendering of a victim handpicked.
Main skill: be cold, calculating and act the way it believes appropriate - meticulous, ruthless, impulsive ... - to get what you want. No guilt, bluntly and without justification.
To deepen their knowledge:
Book Dangerous Minds - The Psychopath Year Itch, written by Ana Beatriz Barbosa Silva
Drajosiane Odila
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