REJECTION? GET THIS!
Perhaps one of the hardest feelings of being sued and overcome by the human being is the pain of rejection. Pain? Yes .... PAIN. In our brain, there are two key areas that are responsible both for physical pain as the emotional pain, according to a team of psychologists at the University of California at Los Angeles (UCLA).
Some people have not learned to deal with rejection, and it becomes unbearable pain, and in many cases, these people feel that to defend, it is better to reject having to deal with rejection.
The big question is: If you want to be successful, must learn to deal with rejection. And she is a natural part of life. To overcome the negative feeling of not being chosen for the team, not to pass the entrance exam, is not elected, not get the promotion you want or be fired, being rejected in a romantic relationship, you should understand to be rejected is part of the growth process and you need to learn to deal with it!
The rejection usually leave very deep scars on self-esteem, especially when that person felt rejected in childhood, either by parents, family, teachers or classmates. In this case, the marks can be quite deep and will certainly influence the behavior of this individual for the rest of your life, if one does not know it and not treat this feeling.
The rejection can occur in many forms such as children who are abandoned by their parents or taken to adoption, children who are unsuccessful and realize other brother as dearest, children who are too criticized, not praised and compared negatively with other children .
The rejection usually leave v
ery deep scars on self-esteem, especially when that person felt rejected in childhood, either by parents, family, teachers or classmates. In this case, the marks can be quite deep and will certainly influence the behavior of this individual for the rest of your life, if one does not know it and not treat this feeling.
The rejection can occur in many forms such as children who are abandoned by their parents or taken to adoption, children who are unsuccessful and realize other brother as dearest, children who are too criticized, not praised and compared negatively with other children .
In adult life, rejection occurs in other ways, such as broken marriages, dating unilaterally broken, loss of job or position, humiliation and differential treatment at work and even ruined friendships.
In adult life, rejection occurs in other ways, such as broken marriages, dating unilaterally broken, loss of job or position, humiliation and differential treatment at work and even ruined friendships.
Learn how to handle rejection, placing first, to love and be loved, it is necessary to love yourself first, then people will respect you. You need to deal with jealousy for the many (a) reject for this reason and many more. It is always short!
Dr. JOSIANE ODILA
I love myself!
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