FEAR OF NEW LOVE?
We all love when we think that this is the last time, this time we found the right person the man or woman of our lives. This is very healthy because if we started a relationship knowing it was the wrong person and that we would finish in a moment it would be absurd to invest any energy in it. However, out of a relationship and lock not to suffer is the same as wanting to win a football match without take the field to play the game.

There is no way to live and relate without getting hurt and without hurting anyone, this is the learning of relations. We learned that many times though loving a person can not go near it, for this love, this relationship makes us sick and we chose to love more ourselves that other that makes me much harm. Reset choose love as something that makes me feel good and obviously suffer from it, learn from it and then spent time and learning, open myself again for another relationship, waiting and investing in a happy relationship. Such is life.

As I said Elis Regina, living and learning the game, not always winning, not always lose, but ... learning to play. Love is a game, and to stop being it is necessary to know that "It is," find someone knowing that want to stop playing and invest every effort in this direction. Still can work for a while and then stop work.

Human beings have a tendency to only keep the bad things and reduce a lifetime to last bad facts that lived in a relationship that came to an end. Life is made of cycles and relationships are also cyclical. Some couples have great capacity for renewal, to make new contracts and open new cycles together, some not, and then open up to new experiences, new cycles, new learning. Close to love for fear of being hurt is to try to stop breathing and deny life as a change and renewal flow. Love yourself first and then someone else, know that even if another hurt me I'll never let him hurt me so much to the point that I did not love me enough to still feel the living breathing love inside of me , feel that no relationship can end up with what I have most precious within me that is my ability to give and receive love, it is to be lovingly healthy, have self-esteem and self-confidence.

All of us, human beings, we need kindness, affection, love and be loved. Without it we are not really living. In this cycle, sometimes feel pain, but this pain is an indication that I'm alive and that my life is pulsating renewal, I have so much love and ever, while breathing, I'll be willing to give and receive love, because this is life .
WE LOVE AGAIN ... AND AGAIN AND AGAIN ..., TO FIND THE IDEAL PERSON, BUT RESPECT UP, NOT a pawn IN THE NAME OF LOVE. OFTEN LOVE You KNOW HOPE AND ANALYZE THE TIMELY MOMENT! Good luck!
Drajosiane Odila